What is something that needs to be said?2020-9-11
I work in other places, and I return to my hometown about once a year. And every time I go back, I will face all kinds of questions from my relatives. I really hate this. It seems that your life is exposed in front of all people. Beauty and any privacy can be said. Finally, I will say that we are all for you. Here are the questions my relatives ask me and what I want to say to them.
Q: why don’t you get married when you’re so old?
A: what does it have to do with you? Please take care of your children first.
Q: what’s your job? What’s your annual salary?
A: what does it have to do with you? The salary must be higher than you.
Q: why do girls read so many books?
A: because I don’t want to be as ignorant as your daughter.
Q: why do you watch your cell phone all day long?
A: it has nothing to do with you, because I don’t want to talk to you.
Q: how can you not even repair a computer after graduation?
A: because I’m not a computer major.
Q: what’s the use of spending so much money on lipstick?
A: what does it have to do with you? Did I spend your money?
Q: your skirt is so short, how could your mother let you wear it?
A: what does it have to do with you? Does the law require girls to wear pants?
There are all kinds of things that have nothing to do with them…….
Some elders will care about trivial matters out of their love for their children, but it is obvious that some of them only ask questions that have nothing to do with them for the sake of gossip.
Life is mine. I have my own privacy. I can tell you or choose not to tell you. If you respect me enough, I should stop asking me some strange questions.
The above is what my relatives asked me, but out of courtesy and respect, I didn’t actually tell them.