I once shared an article on what it’s feel like for a girl to fall in love with a guy, and a friend left a comment saying：
“I got them all. I’ve been single for four years and this is the first time I’ve felt this way, and I’ve been honest with him. And he’s provoked me occasionally, even on my birthday kissed me forcefully. Now he said he just broke up with his ex-girlfriend and keeps telling me that we are only good enough to be friends. What to do?”
He kissed you and said you’re just friends? This kind of person to stay away from it while it’s early. Even together only to fear that you are a spare tire, to put it mildly, may be worse than a spare tire.
Some people provoke you not really like you, just like the feeling of being surrounded by the stars, just like the feeling of the spare tire hordes. And some people are also blindfolded and can’t see it when they’re clearly being treated as a spare tire.
Today, I’d like to share with you what signs indicate that you’re being treated as a spare tire.
You’re rarely contacted.
Honestly, how can you really like someone who can’t resist not missing you, how can you resist not contacting him, only mouths to mouth and heart to heart a few times.
When you think about him, he also thinks about you, and before your message is even sent, he starts looking for you. He starts coaxing you before you’re even angry. You’re getting your nails done, no hands to reply to his messages, and he’s started calling a few times.
All the talk about being reserved and coy is just an excuse. A coy person won’t not contact you, he’ll just repeat every word and still miss you inside. And the person who treats you as a spare tire, it’s not that they don’t have time to contact you, it’s just that there are too many people to provoke at the same time and they are too busy to do so.
Constantly having an affair without the next step.
Someone in the know asked if two people who once loved each other could still be friends after they separated. Someone said, “I can’t do it, I like you so much, how can I be willing to just be friends with you, how can I be willing to just go this far with you? I have to watch you slowly leave me it, I am not willing.
Yeah, people are really like you never want to you just be friends, and even more do not want to and you stay in the ambiguous period but refused to take the final step.
You’ll be able to get the most out of the game, and you’ll be able to get the most out of the game. Isn’t that nice? Or pretend not to understand your meaning, turn away from this topic and continue to talk.
The best thing during the love period is the ambiguous period, the atmosphere is hazy and smoky, as if almost but also as if just right. But like your man how would not want a result it.
You want to turn positive, but how can he allow a spare tire to turn positive in front of him, what a joke.
Clap a palm to give a date
On the “Chirp”, Ginger Star once described how to raise a spare tire, which talks about a point, raising a spare tire must learn to give a little bitter and then give a little sweet, not always sweet and not always bitter, to fully whet the appetite.
For example, if you’ve promised to go on a date with you, but have repeatedly stood you up, give you a little bitterness. Afterwards will give you a little more comfort and compensation, give you a little sweet.
People actually have this kind of mind inside, the more you encounter this kind of up and down with exciting feelings, the more the heart can be firmly grasped. In this case, perhaps you will also hesitate, although he is not very good to me, and also neglects me away from me sometimes, but he also occasionally great.
If the guy next to you is the same way, giving you a slap on the wrist and a little sweetness, then you’re probably the spare tire.
A lot of spare tires.
I saw a story about an online romance run now turn over the scene, the two sides met through online romance, and decided to run now.
During the meal, the boy went to the bathroom and girl peeked at his phone, the results that she found on a sound he paid attention to more than 200 girls who have a big breast and long legs. And in a blog on the concern of more than 100 skin white beautiful lady, in a probe on the provocation of a lot of lady, a letter is also about a lot of people nearby. The girl is obviously a spare tire.
He just took you as a chatting tool to dispel loneliness, as a empty and lonely late-night garbage can.
In fact, they have been quietly looking for someone they really like, and when they find that person, they can still go after her as a single.
You, on the other hand, are just the springboard before he meet his true love.